Hey its Rushab here, CEO of OneHive and I wanted to share a bit about A Level results day. The biggest day in most teenager's lives... all your friends come together to to open your results.

There's a dark side to the cheers and congratulations. 11 years ago I opened my results expecting A* A* A* A  and I actually received  A A B B

Which meant I missed both my first and second choice University option. I wanted the world to swallow me up... I had no idea what I was going to do.

With thoughts running through my head from shame to fear, uncertainty to anger. I did not know how to deal with this huge failing.

As a parent, it is also difficult, especially if you're Asian and expect your child to succeed academically. There's a lot of learnings that can be taken from how my parents helped me through the dark journey along with the support network of friends who helped me through the clearing process.

I wanted to share the following blog to share some of the key tips I would beg parents to read! Because at the end of the day, everything happens for a reason.

My reason was that I went on to University of Warwick to read Mechanical Engineering, pass with a 1st Class Honors and go on to have a wildly successful engineering career, travel the world and start a scaling tech company.

So embrace the change, the journey and help your son or daughter unlock their full potential, no matter what results they receive:

1. Bee Positive

Your reaction sets the tone for the day. It's crucial to remain calm and supportive, regardless of the outcome. Reassure your child that their worth is not defined by grades alone and that you're proud of their effort. This can help ease the pressure they might feel.

2. Bee Prepared 

Results day can be unpredictable, so it's wise to prepare for all possible outcomes. Whether your child achieves their desired grades or not, having a plan in place for the next steps can provide comfort and direction. Discuss options like clearing, gap years, or apprenticeships before the results are in.

3. Bee Supportive

It's natural to feel anxious about how your child compares to others, but it's important to avoid making comparisons. Every student's journey is unique, and comparing their results to others can increase stress and anxiety. Focus on your child's individual achievements and progress.

4. Bee Balanced

Remind your child that exam results are just one part of their educational journey. Encourage them to see the bigger picture and consider all the skills and experiences they've gained. This balanced perspective can help them manage disappointment and look forward to future opportunities.

5. Bee You

Managing your own stress is vital. Ensure you're looking after your wellbeing so you can be fully present for your child. This might include taking some time for yourself, talking to other parents, or engaging in a calming activity. A calm and collected parent can better support a stressed child.

And as a Bonus, here’s one of the most important tips: 

6. Bee In The Know

It always helps to have a friendly supporter who can navigate the re-test process. Reach out to one of our educational experts for free by calling 02080501069 or messaging 07355541621 and our team will help your child unlock their true potential.